Assalamualaikumwarahmatullahiwabarakatuhu.
A’udhubillahiminashaitanirajeem.Bismillahirahmaniraheem.
((May the peace, mercy, and blessings of Allah be with you).
(I seek protection in Allah (Subhanahu-wata’Allah) from the accursed Shaitan/devil/satan).
(In the name of God, the Most Kind, the Most Merciful)).
Here is the patiently-awaited new post. This girls been waiting a while for me to post this,and finally I have. Thanks for writing in MeltingAway,and I sincerely hope your life turns around for you. Pray to God for help and guidance. Take care.
Hello.
I’m an 18 year old girl…and well I have a few problems in life.
Life for me has always been good, but now everything just seems bad.
I don’t know why I’m writing on this site atm, but I guess it’s because I feel alone and confused.The main thing I wanted advice on…was the fact that I get abused by my father…and I don’t know how to deal with it.
I also don’t understand why I don’t have any close friends. I am a popular girl at my college and I get along with many people…but for some reason I don’t have any close friends. And I wanted to ask…how I could change that…because I am a nice person so I don’t understand why people don’t want to be close friends with me.
I also have extremely low self esteem. And i was wondering if anyone has any ideas on how i could improve my self confidence. Because atm, i feel so worthless.
Oh! And finally, I just wanted to get some advice on how I could stop cutting. I have done it a few times and it really helps me feel better. I love it when I see the blood, I feel like I have accomplished something. I know it’s not right which is why I want to stop before i cut any deeper. In saying that if i dont cut i would need some other type of ‘release’ that would help me feel better.Sorry for any spelling and gramatical mistakes and I know it might not make sense, it’s just that i don’t have much time atm.
Please publish this as a story(even though it’s short and is just a bunch of questions, hopefully if i get time i can type more as there is just so much i need to talk about) its just i would like answers as soon as possible.Thankyou in advance.
MELTINGAWAY.
If you want to read things that this girl has already said about her life, comments she’s written here go over to the Publish page of this blog:
http://afterhardshipwillalwayscomeease.wordpress.com/publish-my-story/
We (my friends and I) started talking to her on that page because I had not yet created a post for her.
Please reply to MeltingAway, be a good friend to her, give her tips maybe how you stopped self-harming etc.
Thank you all for reading, and hopefully replying back!
Walaikumussalam
Just started yes, I had first lectures this week-different but good. Yeah it’s very interesting just want to keep on top of it all from the beginning.
Yeah I’m still praying with all my heart. Praying does help a lot.
Thanks for reply.
No one really gives a -.
No matter who they are
Even when they say they’re different, they never usually are.
Don’t rely on anyone
Everyones the same-They help you when it’s convenient
To put their conscience at ease
But no one really cares
And you know that as well as me.
Hey,what’s wrong?
We care.
You alright?
I’m alright.
Assalamualaikum. Hi,just wondering how you’re doing? You ok? How’s uni life?
I might not be able to relate to anyone that goes on this site, so I won’t even attempt to tell anyone “I know how they feel” or that “I know what they’re going through” because if the truth be told, I probably don’t. We’re all tested in different ways but all I would say to anyone, is get closer to Allah…the biggest problems seem like absolutely nothing when you know you’ve got Allah to speak to. Ask Him for everything and anything and tell Him about your problems (not that He doesn’t know, but it might make things easier for you, expression wise) and then ask Allah to assist you in dealing with those issues. There’s no loss in asking because whether you receive assistance instantly or not; Allah is most generous and most loving to His people…why would He leave you without rewarding you for your struggles and for turning to Him one way or another? There are three ways in which Allah answers our du’as (prayers). Allah will either give you what you ask for, replace what you ask for with something even better (because as we are told in the Qur’an, sometimes what we think is best for us is not and what we think is bad for us is in fact good for us) or Allah does not give you anything in this life but rather saves it for a day where every man will need it more; on the day of Qiyaamah (Judgement), in the form of good deeds..AllahuAkbar (Allah is Great!) what is better than that? So you see, no loss…benefit after benefit is all you attain with getting close to your maker – for who knows you better than He who created you? And who loves you more? Allah tests those that he loves most – so that He may reward them abundantly for the hardships that they have endured. Keep the faith! Your Sister in Islam, in humanity; Hafsah Awan. Peace.
hello; u need to realise ur a worthy and cuttin ur self is all pshycological find someone u confinde in and tell about ur situation dnt cut ur self its no doin ur any justice ur tryin to get rid of the anger from ur dad but trust me it will only make it worse. If ur a muslim just pray and read the quran, it does get easier trust me. Try take up some karate or kick boxing or boxing classes to get rid of the anger in a healthy way dnt harm ur self ur just as important as everyone else dnt make any 1 make u feel not worthy just believe in ur self and pray, i had anger issues i could seriously hurt a person and not be aware of what i done so i decided to take up karate and it really helped me in so many aspects.
Just believe in ur self and no one cant take ur belief from u
Peace. My sister in Islam