About

Call it an Online agony aunt if you wish. Or A free online helpline.

The world’s first free, no sign-up required, anonymous if you wish, online help service solving your problems like an agony aunt and you can also raise money for charity for free!

No money needed or used.

Goal:

Basically, here’s the main idea: to help bring ease to people after they’ve suffered hardships.

How?

Whoever need help of any sort (like needs info on how to physically get help, how to change your life for the better, just even have some moral support, like find a friend here online who you can tell your problems to,) they just need to write in their story, send it in to me and just wait for someone to reply. Other people in the world will leave  comments of support (hopefully lol, well Inshallah/God willing) and that will in turn help the person who sent their story in.

What:

Need help? Send in your story.

Want to help? Leave your comments of support to the stories.

It’s a simple idea, but hopefully it will be really successful one day and help solve people’s issues.

It’s like charity as charities help people. Or an agony aunt. Or an online help service to solve life issues. Plus, it’s free and no sign-ups.

Why am I doing this/ what am I getting out of it?

Believe it or not, I’m doing this to actually help you; help people suffering in this world. I’m not getting any money out of it. Your not paying for help either. (Lol, I’m using WordPress, so I don’t think I can get money if I wanted to anyway.)

But seriously I hope I can help someone out there, at least assist one person out there overcome their problem. Help them. Also, with the money issue-it’s absolutely free (Lol, except your internet charges or whatever but that’s got nothing to do with me!) the thing is when someone’s life is really messed up, yeah, I don’t think they’d want to give away their money too. That’s another extra thing on their mind init? Like say:

A self harmer, who’s depressed, with only enough money to survive-and if they had extra would spend it on drugs anyway- they wouldn’t be able to afford a shrink now would they? They probably can’t get professional help. (I know that some people who are well off, if they had a mid life crisis or something or their situation became that bad, they seriously needed help, then they’d be willing to try anything, even give their money to a professional, just to see of they could help in any way.) ok, now let’s say that person- let’s call him J- doesn’t have any true mates, or thinks he doesn’t, so needs someone to talk to, to help them get their life back on track. J lives on the street and has only 2 possessions: a mobile and a laptop. The laptop was given to them by their favourite person in the world: their late dad…who died in a car crash when J was only 12. The mobile was a goodbye present from J’s mum on his 13^th. His mum became depressed after her husband died. A day after his 13^th, when he was officially a teenager, his mum committed suicide, so J ran away from home. Now, a year later, at 14 years old, he’s got no friends (well, he left them all behind, and they’re still looking for him) and he realised that he should get help. So he goes online; finds an adaptable charger somewhere (Lol), to see if someone out there can help him. He finds a great website. An agony aunt thing. But you gotta pay. It sounded too good to be true and it was. (Lol, this bit’s kinda serious actually-I saw an agony aunt site and for a certain amount of words in the reply, there was a certain amount you’d pay, and the more words in the reply from the site, the more you’d pay. So J thought, ‘what on earth, if I was well enough to set up PayPal or whatever why would I be going on a website that’s supposed to be helping my problems, eh? It’s making them worse! C’mon man. I’ve only got what’s left of my parents money which I’m using to feed myself. What am I going to do? My life’s messed up. I might as well just kill myself! Oh wait…before I kill myself, I’ll just see if there’s any other websites. OMG! Thank God! AHWACE! Wow, it’s free. And oh my, even better I don’t even need to sign up. What? I don’t even need to give in my personal info? I’ll be actually able to get help, that’s amazing, init. So, J leaves a comment to AHWACE. After an hour he’s already got a reply. Then more and more. He was quite lucky, sometimes it could take a long time for a reply to come, sometimes only a short while, as it was people around the world helping out. After a month J was back in his home town. In a youth hostel. In rehab now. (From cutting and doing drugs). The people who helped him on AHWACE gave him some great advice. They convinced him he was worth something and to stop self-harming. He started to pray for help too. His prayers were answered. The new online friends he’d made told him to return home. His best mate was their and he was welcomed back by many. J thought no-one cared about him, but he was wrong. His community had been searching for him and in the past year even made a youth hostel for people like him, especially in case he returned home…and he did! He realised that he had some true, sincere friends. He went back to school as well, but it was hard at first. His best friend- say his name was A. Well A’s parents took him in. J finished his GCSEs. Failed some, passed others. But he kept trying. He kept talking to people on AHWACE and told them how his life had changed thanks to their help. When J was 17, he became a regular at AHWACE and ‘joined’ and ‘donated’ by writing in comments of help to others there. His story of how he went from hardship2ease was also published there. When he was 21, him, A, and their other mates set up youth hostels in many places and helped people who were mentally unstable. They spread the message that: ‘after hardship will always come ease!’

(Ok, lol, that story was totally made up and no I don’t know anyone like that-but oh man if I could make an impact like that, it would be absolutely amazing mashallah.

Even if I just get something like this following story, I’d still be happy lol:

“H I’m S. I accidentally cut myself. Ouch. It hurts.”

-So I’ll leave in a comment of ‘support’ lol.

“I’m hardship2ease. Awww! Hope you get better! Don’t worry. Just wash it, put a plaster on it and hopefully you’ll get better soon!”

-and they write back.

“Thank you! You made me feel so much better!”

Lol, yeah. I know man, my imagination is wicked init? Haha.

Examples of what kind of stories to write/ type of people.

The only thing you really ‘have’ to do when writing if for help, is write in your ‘problem’, which hopefully will be solved.

Basically, if you need help of any sort. Oh yeah, I’m going to be the one publishing the stories, so if you do something dumb or spam etc. then it won’t need to be published.

So, if you’re: suicidal (please don’t kill yourself!), emo, goth, druggie, need rehab, alcoholic, addicted to drugs, junkie, smoker, depressed, self-harmer/cutter, have a mental illness, schizophrenic, bi-polar/have manic depression, are in trouble, a drug dealer and want to stop, gay, need religious help, need moral support, think your worthless, hurt yourself even if by accident and can’t stand the pain, don’t get the point of life, someone died, you broke up with someone, you’re going to die .g. from cancer, gang trouble, etc. and also anything like those 2 stories I gave earlier.

To help/donate

When you help it’s like you’re donating to charity. But it’s free. You’re giving your words instead of money. It still helps loads. And I know it’s not like real charity, so that’s why I called it a faratiyo instead. ‘cause it’s LIKE charity. It’s kind words

There’s an Islamic quote, which is pretty cool, goes with this and quite inspirational and please don’t take offence if you’re not Muslim, it’s just that it’s a very nice quote-

“Save yourself from the (Hell) Fire even with half a date (to be given in charity). And if you do not find, then with a good pleasant word.” – Collected by Al-Bukhari

To help people, just leave in your comments to the story.

These people need moral support, friendly help. It makes a huge difference to them.

Why should you be part of this? Why give in stories here and help here? What makes it different?

-      No sign-up required (lol, there’s no sign-up anyway unless you count WordPress, if you want to make a blog like this, but that’s up to you!)

-       Free! No money involved. Full stop.

-       Meet great people here, receive a friendly word and just be kind to each other, get moral support and give it.

Remember

After hardship will always come ease.

There’s always light at the end of the tunnel.

Don’t ever give up with life.

Keep trying.

And on those tough, dark days, just remember you can always go from hardship2ease. Sometimes-well a LOT of the time…seems like nothing will ever be right again lol-it’s not easy. But we just have to all try. Keep on persevering. And remember again: AHWACE!!!